Our paths crossed early 1970's when Liz married my brother; a relationship which did not endure, although the rest of my family were fortunate to gain Liz into our lives for good.  For me, Liz was like another Big Sister - also my namesake!  We had a lot of direct contact then, supporting each other through challenging times - often way into the early hours...

Inspiring by her resilience, determination and resolve to challenge whatever beset her, Liz always knew her own mind and wasn't afraid to climb the mountain to see what lay ahead, invariably having researched it all beforehand.  Typically resourceful, she always conquered. 

When she decided to relocate to Jamaica to give Ian and Alicia the best possible opportunity, I was fearful we would drift apart as Liz embarked upon her new family life and career...  I should have known better - Liz was an excellent communicator, frequently sending detailed and lengthy letters by Air Mail, so although we saw little of each other, our friendship remained as strong and committed as ever.  As technology developed, we were able to share each others lives more easily and even better, visually - she even took me on a video tour of her house.

Liz always cared a great deal about other people and I was very touched by her supportive loyalty when on two occasions, she found time to accompany me to spend time with Hazel in her Care Home whilst visiting the UK.  That connection remained steadfast; there was a response, despite my Mum's advanced dementia.

Having given her all to bringing up Ian and Alicia single-handedly, once they started to be able to indulge her with special occasions and holidays, I always sensed Liz felt awkwardly reticent to let them do so - needless to say, afterwards it was clear how much she had enjoyed time away with them.  Liz was unfamiliar with being spoilt.

Liz knew her children absolutely adored her.  Amongst many other occasions when I told her how much Ian and Alicia are an absolute credit to her, I last said this to her on her birthday this year.  Typically, she modestly replied "I know - I am so lucky".

Liz, you were both an inspiring and cherished friend, who will be much missed by many.  As always, you fought to the very end - I hope you did feel proud of all you achieved, as you so deserve to.  You will live on via the caring qualities and the strong values you have bestowed upon your children and I will always be there for them both, should they need any support. x